Mark

It's a bit complicated. I've been happily married for over 30 years. 20 years ago we tried a little limited playing with others. Mostly online and phone sex, but we each met in person with a few others too. Our boundaries were no penetration and no oral, so pretty tame compared to many of you here. It worked for us and we had fun with it. But after a while my wife decided she didn't want to continue. She didn't ask me to stop, but I did for a few years. But more recently I've been enjoying these things again, but now discreetly. I still observe the boundaries my wife and I agreed to years ago.