I have a thought about why exhibiting myself feels good. I think it has to do with vulnerability. I feel vulnerability and sexual expression is *very* hot. For instance I love eye contact during sex. I also enjoy being naked in front of strangers and being watched while masturbating. Orgasming in front of someone else is a very vulnerable, honest, and hot moment. I think in these moments I feel exposed and vulnerable and that's sexy. Thoughts?

What is important to remeber is that both of these are reactions to clothing and shame culture. Our primate cousins, chimps and bonobos naturally love making a spectacle of themselves, and enjoy watching the others do it as well, and for them, it is freely shared no inhibitions or even the possibility of shame. All the possibilities expressed here and the ones that are not shared yet, all return to the desire to be like our cousins as it is only natural.

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"I also have the exact same feelings about the sheer thrill of exhibiting my dick, anus or some other part of my naked body, "not in a 'come fuck me' way, but in a 'hey, here's my anus' kind of way. "

This is very interesting. When you show your anus in a "here is my anus" that is the way someone dominant wants to see it. The "come fuck me way" is an order. I learned a long time ago the difference and it really does come down to whether or not you have a good audience and a well behaved one. But, for most men, here is my anus/come fuck me is the same thing, and they will read it as the same thing and the likelyhood your ass is getting fucked is high in those settings. I just like to see it, personally.

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This is a really good discussion - there is nothing I can add - I agree with and could have said everyone of the thoughts/feeling and theories.

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