Choking/Breath Control
This fetish group is open to everyone whom enjoys the practice of choking/breath control during sexual intercourse. The group is for anyone whom enjoys being choked and/or those of us (like the myself, the Moderator) whom enjoys choking sexual partners during sex. Straight, bi, gay, women, men, young, old; everyone is welcome to join the group. In order to join the group please have a completed,...
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Hooked up with a male bottom using Men4sexnow.com. Total stranger. Fucked him raw, no questions asked. As usual, I never discuss my proclivity to choke my partners during sex prior to getting in bed. I employed my normal technique of playing with, and applying light pressure on the throat early in the foreplay to determine if my partner is accepting. Fortunately, my partner was more than willing to participate, and encouraged me to choke him harder while fucking his hole. Nothing makes me more hard than to see the color in my partners face turn completely white, dark red circles around the eyes, as their air is reduced while I fuck their hole! Totally took my partner down just as I shot my load deep inside his hole.
If you haven't used the breath control/choking techniques in your fucking routine, you should try it!! It totally maximizes the climax for both partners with extreme intensity!!
Keep choking!!
Marc,
Moderator
Definitely not a fan, dont like my neck touched especially after having been choked when I was a child. Id end up fighting so that kind of play wont work for me.
I'm curious about why you would join a group about erotic asphyxiation or choking if it's something that you have trauma over. It was forced tickling for me and because of the spasms it would induce I would start to asphyxiate. I had the same almost automatic reaction as I got older. Punch to the head.
I did a lot of body work around touch and with bondage and transgressive elements thrown in to work past the reaction that would manifest in other situations too. Like at the dentist lol. It took a fair amount of time but I am far less ticklish and don't lose control anymore.
Your issue is more severe so I won't say that my method would work or even help.
I know with all sub /Dom sex that the dom is in charge and therefore the one who will have to face the Police if things go wrong, so it's important to ensure that its still safe, after all someone dead and facing up to 15 years (UK) in prison will certainly ensure you're not feeling horny rather quickly
I know with all sub /Dom sex that the dom is in charge and therefore the one who will have to face the Police if things go wrong, so it's important to ensure that its still safe, after all someone dead and facing up to 15 years (UK) in prison will certainly ensure you're not feeling horny rather quickly
It's not play I do as a Dom even though I have CPR and ressucitation training. It is safe and relatively risk free if the right technique and laser point attention to anatomy is observed. Two ways to do it primarily one is carotid restriction and the other arrested asphyxiation (you don't go past anoxia which is oxygen depletion in the blood). Asphyxiation is depletion in the brain. In the first you are slowing but not stopping the flow of blood to the brain. The sleeper hold does this. Check for two carotid arteries some people have only one. That's dangerous for the technique. Cutting off air is more complicated. I would recommend a device to limit intake easily removed and not a choke hazard then light pressure (mostly for effect ) on the neck. Pinch the nose instead of more pressure. It's so easy to crush the breathing structures in the neck. Nooses are not safe. Nor are garottes. Or anything else like those things. You're going to see blue nails lips or see the eyes roll and the head slouch and you must stop there. The sub isn't fully passed out. This is seconds from asphyxiation so observation and much practice is essential. You should know how to do CPR and AR. There should be oxygen and a mask (or a pump mask). If you have a person go out and stay out or not come back fully call an ambulance immediately. You nor the sub should be intoxicated and you must know their medical history before starting. People on several prescription drugs can die easily this way. Having a third party with first aid and using a heart monitor is not a bad idea either.
This is bare minimum stuff.