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I have a tight anus and wish it wasn't. Some of those toys from Ann Summers are just too big. I would also like to be able to accept a man inside me when the time is right. Do you have any hints for lostening it - a beginners guide?

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I have a similar problem, but my reason for trying to be able to accept larger objects is for different reasons. A few women have wanted me to let them use a strap-on on me...

In order to not tear my rectum, I have used the body of a marker with lubrication or a condom over it. A highlight marker is still a little uncomfortable, so I don't know if I will ever learn to like it.... There is a video of me using a narrow marker in my profile.

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I can take Ann Summers' starter butt plug at 9cm circumference (just under 3cm diameter), which is a bit bigger than a marker pen. I want to go up to 11cm or 12 cm circumference. Is there a way of easing it bigger?

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I have the same problem Olly, my anus is too tight and wont accept a cock or toy either. I can get a small carrot up there after a while. I have decided to simply enjoy the pleasure of topping other men instead and its great. I sometimes get the desire to be ridden still from time to time tho...

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Once you get something up your ass, your asshole expands. That can be a butt plug, dildo, or your fingers. With your fingers, you can start with one finger and then insert two fingers and then three fingers.

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It's all about taking it slow, start small and work your way up in size. Of course lots of lube as well.

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I have a tight anus and wish it wasn't. Some of thosetoys from Ann Summers are just too big. I would also like to beable to accept a man inside me when the time is right. Do you haveany hints for loosening it - a beginners guide?

Always lots of lube. Start with one finger. Do it often
and get it wider a little at a time. You'll run out of
fingers, and start on toys before long. Then you can start
leaving the toy in you a little longer each time. Then move up to bigger toys, a little step at a time. I'm now up
to 3-inch diameter (see my Photo in Butt Plugs group). You
won't get there quickly, but every little increase is worth the
effort.

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It also helps to be super horny when you start ass play. Gently getting into it will allow you to relax.

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It also helps to be super horny when you start ass play. Gently getting into it will allow you to relax.I'll open up any day for you buddy! ;-)

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At this minute, I have a dildo up my ass, and I am sitting on it.

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I joined Getdare and was told I must wear my butt plug every time I have a shower for a whole year. That might loosen things up.

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