going for a first meet

This is a question for the ladies. I have made plans to meet up with a woman who has been widowed for 2 yrs. She's reluctant to have sex because her husband of 50 yrs. never satisfied her. He is the only man she has had sex with in her life, so she doesn't want to go though the same thing all over again. I am very good at making women very satisfied in bed. Sometimes giving them several orgasms. My question is, how slow and easy should I take it at first? I would like her to tell me what she wants, but she said she was never aloud to do that.

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