My 2nd wife used a strapon on me. She knew when we got married that I liked to take it up the ass and this was her effort to try and keep me at home instead of going out and looking for dick. She had some pretty good sized ones and I must say I loved when she would fuck me with them but we both agreed it wasn't like the real thing. So I went back to trying to bring dick home. She was good about it and sometimes they fucked her too and she also liked to see me take it. But I would never turn down a woman with a big strapon. It can feel mighty good.
Agree I think would be awesome if could find a women who is willing to strap on an fuck you. Or let you have guys also as you said the dildo is definitely not the same as the real thing. They might be close, but not there yet.
I like real much more, but if she is willing I will let anyone use a strap on also.