HE1948

About HE1948

"I Have/Had Prostrate Cancer"
I have been going back and for hospital since mid July, for tests, scans and a biopsy, conclusion is I have Prostrate Cancer, 2 treatments have been offered, Surgery and Radiotherapy, meeting the surgeon and the Radiotherapist to discuss which is the better of the 2 to go for, then treatment will start. This will reduce my time being on here, which may be for about a year, hopefully this explains why I haven't been around a lot, hope you understand.
Take Care Dave.
4th Oct 2022

"Update",
I am now on the surgeons list, it has been suggested that I might be in hospital the second half of December 2022 or first half of January 2023, so not a long wait for the operation.
13th Nov 2022

"Update"
19th January 2023 is the date for my surgery to remove my prostate

"Update"
19th January 2023 was cancelled, it is now on the 26th January.

"Update"
20/02/2023
Surgery was done on the 26th, took 3 hours, was strange to walk into the operating theatre, and hop up onto the operating table, which tilted so my legs were higher than my head , must of been 12+ ppl in there , woke up in recovery feeling really good, pumped loads of oxygen into me. was booked into the "High dependency ward" which was nice, 1 nurse for 2 patients, not a good night sleep as the lady opposite had issues late at night, great night staff, morning felt good they got me to go for a walk came back sat down then after 20 mins passed out, woke up and they had got cardio down to check me over, was fitted with a portable mini ECG which was stuck to my chest and had to stay there for 14 days, so I had to stay for another night, Saturday morning came and was waiting to be discharged which took forever, no one knew what was going on, total contrast from the previous 2 days, final left around 14:00, and got home , and slept until Sunday morning, then had my real first experience of the catheter, I didn't think I was going to like it and I didn't the following Sunday morning we called the District Nurse as it appeared to be blocked , she tried to unblock it with no success so it had to be removed, now Its having no control over my bladder, which is normal but very uncomfortable, the operation wounds are all looking good now which I am pleased about, just this lack of bladder control, which isn't good when i have been on cam, these last 2 days, so it is just head and shoulders on cam, this next week it will be time to see If I can get my penis to work again. that's it for now

"Update"
8th March 2023
Decided to try and come back on cam again but the situation with my bladder control has made it so difficult to be fully naked and enjoy the naked time,as I tend to totally wet myself, on TS when I try and have a play urine pours out of my penis, which is so embarrassing and must be rather disgusting to view , please if you see me on cam, don't ask me to do a one on one cam as I really cant do it, i have tried to be polite about it which hasn't worked, let's remind you of the reasons again, I have no real control over my bladder therefore prone to pee myself, if I touch my penis more often than not I will pee myself, I am unable to masturbate at the moment until I get the go ahead from the surgeon on 19th April, and because I have had the prostate removed due ot cancer I AM NOT ABLE TO CUM anymore, I will have an orgasm but will be unable to shoot a load, time will tell with getting a full hard erection So please understand my situation as it is at the moment, I will be back on cam fully naked as soon as I can etc Thank you for your understanding, x

"Update'
19th April
3 months since my prostate was removed, catheter was removed on 5th Feb at home by the District Nurse as it was blocked by blood clots, even after flushing it through lt was still blocked, so it was removed a day earlier than expected and not by urology, saw the surgeon this morning PSA blood test was done on the 12th April, results were very good in fact excellent at 0.01 they can only go down to that, which means I am cancer and prostate free, like most ppl after having a catheter fitting and removed I am suffering from leakage, but that's nothing to worry about in the grand scheme of things, it will get better, it has stopped me from going in cam though, I did try but it was a disaster lol. Now the cancer unit have handed me over to another department, which is going to be an interesting journey,this is rehabilitation lol so Viagra and a pump will be on the way at some point, some fun and laughter is coming I guess, all very positive, and praise to the surgeon and all the NHS staff that I came into contact with,
Now we go forward and get my body working again, bring on the fun.

Update June 9th 2023

At last I have the pump, my first day of use, and it's going to be enjoyable I think, at first it's only for rehabilitation, 10 - 20 mins per day for up to 6 weeks then I will be ready for sex, hopefully before that as far as I am concerned, it seems a bit tight just with the standard comfort ring on the pump, they do advise if it is tight to remove the comfort ring, I didn't think I was that thick, maybe I am, all good fun, I also have a few packets of the blue pill, getting stocked up, at least things seem to be even more positive now.

Update July 27th.

The 6 month check up on Monday 24th July went very well, Psa level is too low to read stil,l which is good, the consultant Prof Birch thinks i am doing well in this short time, i am glad he thinks it is a short time it seems a lifetime for me, he wants me to keep using the pump maybe twice a day now, he has also push the strength of the blue pill up to 100mg now, he is wanting to see a massive improvement on the next appointment which is on the 15th January 2024
Update 15 Dec 2024
Over the last year my PSA reading has been on the up but still way below any concernes, I still leak when I laugh, cough and lift heavy items, but at first I didnt ever think I would be at this stage by now, I still put a pad on when I go out just in case , normally I am ok, the last thing I want is a wet patch on the front of my trousers (pants (USA)) , as for erections , they still haven't recovered much, but I am still working on them, I pop the blue pill, then use the pump for the therapy it is working sort of havent got my lengh back but the thickness is back so hopefully now that good and back to normal the lengh will get better and close to how I was, as for being dry now there no hot sticky white stuff,I do miss it thats for sure, I still get the orgasm, the plus side is no mess to clean up, I still seeing the consultant every three months while my PSA level is going up Next test is on the 29th Dec hopefully it wont still be going up, otherwise I may have to go in and have I believe Radiotherapy , will have to wait and see, thankfully I have a direct line/contact with urology for aftercare and they respond with a few hours which is good, also they are good with the PSA test I normally get it done at the hospital around 10am the results are back by mid afternoon and I get a message from the hospital an hour later to chat about the results, I am like other patients being looked after very well no complaints at all from start to finish, well its still on going, so the end result is, my penis is about 2cm shorter, i dont have any sperm to shoot and erctions are not that good , good things are no mess and I am alive, so a small price to pay so ppl say lol, happy days

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