What Is Sexual Orientation

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What is Sexual Orientation

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I have had lots of discussions over the last four plus years here
on Trueswingers. I know many people don't like labels, but I
find knowing where is person is coming from sexually makes for a
better discussion. So here are a few things I have
noticed.
Guys who list themselves as 'straight'. Some of them have had
oral with other guys. Many have masturbated together.
When does a guy move from 'straight' to 'bi-curious' or
'bisexual'?
I have found that most people who indicate that they are 'bisexual'
are either guys who are mostly straight but do enjoy a guy some of
the time. Many widowed and divorced guys often move to mostly
gay sex. There is another group of bisexuals who are primarily
gay, but will engage in female sex as part of a group. Rarely
are they one on one with a female. There are a few bisexuals
who really have no preference.
Also just because a guy indicates he is gay, does not mean he has
not had sex with a women. Many have.
At any rate, I would like to hear what others have found and want
to talk to others about.

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RE:What is Sexual Orientation

I like to say that I am bisexual, but heteramourous. Ive only been in relationships with men but Ilove to look at and play with women. Its hard to stick to one category.

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