The Mancave - Male Bonding
A Group for guys who like to kick back In the mancave with other guys,do guy stuff open up and bond as close bros. Guys that hang out naked or get naked with no judgements, no labels we're all just brothers. And what what happens in the mancave stays in the mancave!between buds!
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Can You Have Sex With a Straight Buddy, and still be Straight yourself?
Return to DiscussionsSo i'm surfing cams ( because lets face it, amateur couplesare the hottest and more authentic than any porn any day),and im' on Chaturbate and i bump into this one camthat is a couple of straight bros. The story behind these guys: is that they're two straightloggers up in canada got laid off and i guess they were reallybroke. One of them moved in with his buddy and his g/f.Could't find work, so long story short they started messingaround with each other on cam. they're girlfriends are totally aware of whats going on and are supportiveof their endeavors. I identify as straight, and was just watching to see how far these guyswould go. ( oh and they went *all* the way ) and i'm watching and realizingthat i've got a full on raging boner. i found myself turned on by this. they definitely were into the pleasure of it, but they still identify as straightand they prefer to have sex with females but to earn some extra cash theyhave sex with each other. It was obvious for them, they had that male bondingenergy going. The guy on the receiving end, says that he enjoys his anal toysand so when he buddy fucks him its just like a dildo to him. So what do you guys think? is it possible to be straight, completely heterosexualbut be able to function with the same gender as long as it was someone you werevery close to and felt an emotional connection with?
That is the definition of Bisexual. Preferring one or the other
does not change that.Here is the definition Bisexuality (or
Ambisexuality) is romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or
sexual behavior toward both males and females"Note that it says "or"
sexual behavior.
I have never understood the concern with labels. If you enjoy something you are still the same person you always were. I guess if I had to wear a label it would be bineutral. I love what feels good but have never had any attraction to men. It they are there and we are playing it is all good. I'm just sexual. My girlfriend and I do massage professionally and indulge some in four hand nude massage. We never care whether it is men or women. Just enjoy. throw away the labels.
My 2 cent's worth - We come from a period where sexual attraction and sexual identity (read: labels) were one and the same thing...and also, where your sexual identity defined your masculinity or femininity.
These days it is becoming much more dynamic, eg guys who identify as straight experimenting (and enjoying) sexuality with other guys, but due to historical cultural norms and values they feel trapped by the label that they grew up with, and are worried about what people will think of their masculinity (or femininity) if they change their sexual identity (I.e. Identifying as Bi instead of straight).
Labels do fulfill a good function: they help people define their sexual identity in order to have a sense of belonging, but as has been pointed out in the thread above, it can also be restricting and can hold people back from expressing themselves fully. I think in a generation or two, the fruits of the current sexual liberation period will be part of our daily lives, and the obsession with labels will fade away :)
So i'm surfing cams ( because lets face it, amateur couplesare the hottest and more authentic than any porn any day),and im' on Chaturbate and i bump into this one camthat is a couple of straight bros. The story behind these guys: is that they're two straightloggers up in canada got laid off and i guess they were reallybroke. One of them moved in with his buddy and his g/f.Could't find work, so long story short they started messingaround with each other on cam. they're girlfriends are totally aware of whats going on and are supportiveof their endeavors. I identify as straight, and was just watching to see how far these guyswould go. ( oh and they went *all* the way ) and i'm watching and realizingthat i've got a full on raging boner. i found myself turned on by this. they definitely were into the pleasure of it, but they still identify as straightand they prefer to have sex with females but to earn some extra cash theyhave sex with each other. It was obvious for them, they had that male bondingenergy going. The guy on the receiving end, says that he enjoys his anal toysand so when he buddy fucks him its just like a dildo to him. So what do you guys think? is it possible to be straight, completely heterosexualbut be able to function with the same gender as long as it was someone you werevery close to and felt an emotional connection with?
Sounds hot! Clearly, based on what you describe, men who call themselves heterosexual *can* function sexually with other men (and really enjoy it.)
When I eat a meal that doesn't include meat, it's a vegetarian meal even if that's not a label I use for myself.
Enjoy what you enjoy.
So what do you guys think? Can You Have Sex With a Straight Buddy, and still be Straight yourself?
I think the REAL question is: Can i have great sex without labeling it all and then trying to sort out the maze of explanations and justifications that the labels force us to navigate?
I'd love to see a day when two guys can give each other the eye and then fuck like mad and not have to give the slightest thought to what it means or if it changes the framework in which they see themselves. One day.
Males in general are sexual and have some degree of attraction to other males from a small interest of peeking at a guys cock to maybe touching. Yes, drinks and drugs lower our resistance to things we would not do normal but there has to be some interest in us for us to get involved with other guy. The label of straight, bi or gay is just someones definition of the degree of guys sexual interest and needs. A guy who has his sexual needs meet wont be out there looking for more elsewhere outside his relationship he is in. There is the key, 'satisfied' need, so at times we don't have it meet we go looking elsewhere. Most of these so called 'straight' guys stuff is staged and they are far from been 'straight'. Just look at them and they all have the same plots...they either drunk or are in need of money.Have fun watching and if you're so incline to get off to them, then you've satisfied that need you had to watch...and you know what that is...