How do you do what you like without her getting mad?
Return to DiscussionsI was a CMT in California. I tell my wife I am doing massage exchanges to keep the skill. Of course she gets a massage from me 2-3 times a week. On nudity, I walk around the house nude all the time. It too years to get her to do the same. Lately we have gone to a nudist resort where she stays clothed and tends to keep away from the other people while I have a great time. Lately she appears to be more relaxed about being nude. Hopefully on our next trip to the nude resort she might sit by the pool with me. She might be wrapped in a towel, but that is OK as she has to stay away from tanning (skin cancer issue). Secret is to work very slowly to the public display with her by starting in the house where she is comfy.
I'm a late blooming nudist, waited till i was 62. Wife said she hadn't seen the real me in 40 years and i was the man she married so she wholeheartedly accepted it, though she will not go to a nudist resort with me. In the summer i spend 5 days a week at a nudist resort in southern ohio, during the winter i head to florida by myself (have a camper at both parks). She knows I'm bi but we don't talk about that much. Have married friend with benefits up north and mostly guys down south. Never knew retirement could be so much fun.
My wife and I recently went on vacation and had a beach house with no traffic at all. I spent the entire week laying out nude. My wife tried it and eventually seemed comfortable being topless. She still says she would never do it in public.
I have told her my goal is to hike nude next summer at solstice and will likely have to do so at a nude resort. She hasn't said much in response so I plan to continue bring it up occasionally. Not sure what she will say when the time actually comes.
Of course, I have done several nude hikes on public lands and at nude resorts on the down low. I'd prefer it not be that way, but "I gotta be me"! I think if she found out, she would ultimately be ok with it as - so far - I haven't interacted much with other nudists. Trouble is, I would love to meet and mingle with other nudists. I need to work on being more bold in that regard. Shyness sucks.