who here is bi or curious because the wife stopped having sex with them?
Return to DiscussionsI am also in the same boat. It has been many years since we have had sex. I have found masturbation to fill the void but, have recently found the company of buds like myself to be very exciting. Two or more guys hanging out on cam, having a bate and talking about what ever gets us hard has been so much fun. I hang here, TN and have some nice skype buds but, really wish I had some men to hang with in real life. Have a beer, watch a movie, get naked and play around. For now I am thankful for the great guys I have met so far.
In the same boat here men. Because of the wife going through the change it's been years since we've had any relations. Masturbation by myself just doesn't cut it.
I have always liked looking at other guys' cocks and when the sex stopped I started exploring the "other side." I enjoy the mutual masturbation side of life cuz it's fun, but more so I enjoy the cock to cock and oral. I also enjoy just hanging naked with other dudes, having some beers and looking. It's just being naked and accepting who we are sometimes that counts.
Smitty
Any guy who has this experience deserves a good chance to experience pleasure and sexual satisfaction. I'm definitely always available for guys in this situation. It's unfair to have sex cut off. And nice to have a buddy who is open willing and who delivers what is asked for.
I have got to say that it is the case with me for sure! She started to tell me that her vagina wasn't as elastic anymore and it was very uncomfortable to have sex with meand it progressed from there. We haven't had sex for several years now, but definitely not for a lack of trying. I had always had a curiosity about having sex with other males and when I found myself on a cruise steam room and approached with the offer to suck cock, I leaped at itand have done so several times on cruises. Then when I found myself on a business trip, I connected with someone online and invited him to my hotel for some steamy shower sex and cock sucking. Finally about 2 years ago while she was away, I connected with one of my friends from here, went to his house, we started kissing and rubbing our cocks together, I sucked him and finally asked him to fuck me! Which he did to my delight! Now it is either I masturbate or await my next rapture by another male, cause the chance of sex at home is very slight sadly! So do consider myself more bisexual at this stage in my life because I do love a warm pussy but also love to suck cock and to be fucked in the ass as well!
I am a gay man who has met a few guys in recent years that probably wouldn't be having sex with men except that their wives have given up sex. They just like sex and are comfortable with either gender (and pretty darn skilled). But one told me that he feels less like he's cheating with a guy than he would with a woman. He is a very affectionate lover, and had a 12 year relationship with his bestie. Both couples were friends, like in Grace and Frankie. In his case I wonder if he really would have chosen a male partner in a different world. Maybe his wife wasn't a great lover because he really wasn't that good with a her either (but oh he was good with me). There are so many variations and permutations in sexual desire.
I'm gay and love sex with horny guys but for some reason I find sex with a bi or " straight " guy particularly horny especially if I'm fucking his ass, do any other gay guys on here feel like this too
Trust me, no one is bisexual because their wives stopped having sex with them. People don't magically become queer because wives stop having sex. Society may engineer people to not act on their same-sex desires (heteronormative ideal of monogamy with a woman will do this), but that doesn't mean that guys were not bisexual beforehand - it just means guys suppressed it.
I heard an expression that applies here. "If you don't give your boyfriend blow jobs, he'll find someone who will." I started looking at gay and bi porn while still married. I had my first experience with a guy after I got divorced. I discovered that I liked giving as much as getting.