who here is bi or curious because the wife stopped having sex with them?
Return to DiscussionsMe too. Have always been bi & played around a bit before I got married. Enjoyed sex with my wife but basically got rather bored with straight sex & the bi side of me gradually resurfaced. I now only seem to have sex with guys & thoroughly enjoy it. I jokingly say, I found my prostate about 5 years ago & love having it massaged.
Yes I can relate to this. Very little sex nearly non now. Had my first bi experience when I was in my 20s and have never looked back. My previous wife never knew likewise my present partner. Being with a guy or guys just excites me more. Nude male bonding.
Good question...
The fact is that I become bi-curious (and later bi) after my wife stopped to make sex with me. But the real reasons are not so simple... The point is that then I met an extremely hot lady and we become lovers... So one night in the middle of the sex delirium with her she put me lay back on the table, rise my legs on her shoulders and start blowing my cock... Up to this moment everything was common and usual... But then suddenly she decides to pound my asshole with her dildo... and it was awesome...
This was my breaking moment...
Similar story here. Sex with my wife was always infrequent at best and then only on her terms, with no love or intimicy, until she turned about 40, at which time it stopped altogether! We then split and I was able to once again enjoy time naked and attend nude beaches where there were many guys, mostly 45 yrs +, in the same situation.
I've always admired a hard cock and the sight of a guy hard or masturbating at the beach is hard to ignore! I found it so much easier and less stressful to hook up with another guy than a female, who are simply not interested in sex 99% of the time!
I find most females lose interest in sex once they've had children, leaving only young women, and most young women are not interested in an older guy! This leaves a great number of 40+ guys extremely frustrated and turning to each other for sexual pleasure.
Most guys I hook up with are also married or recently divorced.
yep me....I have always had a strong sex drive......her .not so much.....then I found out that I enjoy men just as much as women.....and we males tend to have the same feelings about sex.....what are we waiting for....let's get naked and have some fun.
Yes, the wife and I no longer have sex but it's entirely due to her medical conditions and not for a lack of want from either of us. I'm not Bi because of this, I was Bi prior to this and she and I have shared a few guys over the years. Now that she's not able to, she's actually encouraged me to explore more of my other side.
I going to go against the grain here.
I am largely bi-curious because I am simply intrigued by cock and interacting with uniquely male sexual energy. I love women and can't imagine not always wanting sex with women. I love my wife and can't imagine being in any sort of romantic and loving relationship with a man. My wife and I have a great sex life.
But - I am very into the idea of casually fooling around with guys - preferably in a social group situation. Keep it light and just have some fun getting off. I might try it and hate it - who knows?
I going to go against the grain here.
I am largely bi-curious because I have in recent years become more intrigued by cock and with the idea of interacting with uniquely male sexual energy. I love women and can't imagine not always wanting sex with women. I love my wife and can't imagine being in any sort of romantic and loving relationship with a man. My wife and I have a great sex life.
But - I am very into the idea of casually fooling around with guys - preferably in a social group situation. Keep it light and just have some fun getting off. I might try it and hate it - who knows?