Male Anal Pleasure
A group for all guys who enjoy giving and / or receiving male anal pleasure, whether its self pleasuring during masturbation, anal rimming or full-on anal sex with another male! Let's share pleasure tips, anal sex stories and pics if you have! :0)
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Being fingered while sucked
Return to DiscussionsMmm interesting point... I guess they (like most str8 men or some gay Top men) associate male anal pleasuring with "being submissive / vulnerable" , and in their minds that is miss-construed as being femme... In other words, masculinity (in their minds) is synonimous with never letting someone else touch his anus...The irony is that most of them probably enjoy sticking their own finger up there, or even a commonplace object, while they are alone... Because there in privacy they dont have worry about someone else bearing witness to their anal pleasuring , and put their masculine image at risk. That is a completely normal reaction, because we are "taught" by society's norms that anal pleasuring is for girls or femme guys, and that thought conditioning is very hard to unlearn...
Bottoms have their own set of motivators for seeking anal penetration. Most powerful for me are various psychological reactions including: "I am doing what many fear to do." Taking another man's cock is thus a demonstration of fearlessness and thus strength. It is also an expression of security -- "I am secure in my masculinity and thus can and will take another man's cock." NOW -- let's not forget the awesome physical sensations/pleasures and the sublime psychological intensity of taking that cock BB!
Sorry to have broadened the topic, but was drawn to the "femme" response.
"The first time that I experienced that, the feeling was so unique and I thought I was going to cum immediately, but he said, no, not yet. So he prolonged it and I was writhing with pleasure."
I found a nudist onCouch surfersthat hosted me in LA during a business conference. We would hang out nude at his place the entire week. He was also in to massage, and offered to give me a massage. Well in the course of the week, he eventually offered to massage my prostate. I am a top but was open to it and I found thevulnerableof it all very erotic. For over an hour he edged me by stroking my dick and massaging my body with one hand while probing my ass hole with his finger from the other hand. I was in a state I had neverexperiencedbefore in my life. He knew what he was doing and controlled his stroking to keep from cumming too soon. When i finally did cum I shot my load like I did when i was 16! It was an incredibly intense time.
If a guy is bi or gay, why would he worry about being fingered - just doesn't make any sense to me! If they ever tried it they would realize what they are missing! It doesn't in any way delete your masculinity to be fingered or fucked, it is just a natural and necessarypart of man on man sex! I think it takes more of a manly man to take a big cock up the ass!