Male Anal Pleasure
A group for all guys who enjoy giving and / or receiving male anal pleasure, whether its self pleasuring during masturbation, anal rimming or full-on anal sex with another male! Let's share pleasure tips, anal sex stories and pics if you have! :0)
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Suggestions Please
Return to DiscussionsIve been a total top but I want to expand my ass hole and experiences in this new year. I have had prostate massages by an experienced man using his fingers, Used my fingers, used the aneros toys and recently bought a six inch life-like vibrator dick. First time use was uncomfortable but after practice with angles and lube I am ready to move up in size! The choices are across the board. Vibrators and toys and handheld toys and suction mounted dicks. Im looking at something about seven or eight inches total - I like the vibraor aspect but like the skin like feel better than hard plastic. Ive never thought about mounting a dick held in place by suction. I must admit that sounds hot.
So my ass friendly buds - what should be my next purchase? I am looking for pleasure right now, but also stretching my hole to accommodate a real penis in the near future. Your suggestions will be helpful. Post here or email me.
Thanks!
Novice Ass Man
Hi. Thats really hot and nice to hear a top guy who would like to expand his pleasure and try the bottom role. I personally suggest for you to try a real cock rather than a big dildo. The reason is because ur ass muscles will stretch whether its a cock or dildo. The important thing to do is get the dick inside with so much lubricant, make his dick and ur hole very wet and lubed. Try it with someone u like and someone u trust, and start with an average size cock. Another important thing is take the tip of the cock slowly, ask him not to push hard, after he enter half his cock let him take it out for a second to relax ur muscle, then he enter it again slowly,with a lot of lube. This could last for 5 minutes, before he can give to u deeper and harder. I advise u with a position where u r in control, for example he lays on his back and u take the cock while sitting on it.
Again, my suggestion go directly to the real cock rather than dildo, not a big difference. The dildo u have already does the job. Lube and take it slowly. Enjoy the deep penetration feeling.
Nice hot post my friend. Like they said a real cock is best that's what did. Lube it up and slide it in, I lay on my stomach as I wanted to feel his whole body on me. He took his time entering me and went deeper with each thrust... Good luck I hope you check it off your bucket list soon.
Joe...
the sooner you migrate to fingers tongues n cocks the more pleasure you will have. It's all about a bud who is patient, experienced n just a bit firm when need be. toys are great but essentially it's masturbation. letting him pleasure your ass opens a whole other dynamic... n it makes u no less a top either. What we forget is that there is no top without a bottom and vice versa. the pleasure is two sides of the same coin. we are more or less comfy usually in one role or the other but that doesn't mean exploration isn't possible or lots of fun. A bud who treats you well n helps you relax n enjoy is key.
Thanks men for all the encouragement and advice. Ive continued playing with my toys and migrated from the small one that easily fits now with no pain to a larger one I recently purchased.
Using lots of lube - Ive been listening - I sat on it with huge success. After it entered all way, I was able to resume my favorite position of on my back and it entered my ass with ease.
I posted a pic of my toys and the large one in my ass. You men helped me to keep pushing and so glad I did! Now Im going to surprise my buddy!
I'm mostly top and have become more vers with a few pieces of knowledge.
1. I hate fingers in my ass.
2. Toys don't feel like real penises, and I hate toys.
3. Thin average cocks can feel "pokey" and hurt in some ways more than a larger one.
4. Your ass really does have muscle memory on how to accept a penis. It doesn't hurt after you get used to it.
5. Uncut bareback is fucking awesome and a totally different experience.
6. Bottoming can make you a better top, bottoms will notice and want you to top more :o)
7. Bottoming can be easier with guys who have fucked me previously. I remember what is was like, so on initial penetration there is much less "oh god this is going to hurt".