Does Size Matter????
What size cock do our ladies really like? Whats too big and whats too small?
BIG THICK COCK: an unexpected issue, photo proof added to Media, a cautionary tale
Return to DiscussionsThis is a cautionary tale, and wish it were fiction, instead of lived experience.
BIG THICK COCKS are wonderful, as a beautiful penis can make great fun to play with and simply behold and marvel.
However, this is not without its drawbacks.
For years now, I have struggled with my own BIG THICK SHENIS (as am trans-femme), to locate chastity cage products that even nearly fit.
For me, it is not so much about length (as for me, the goal is ALWAYS as short as possible, ~25 mm or less, though my current 24/7 lifestyle cage is ~50 mm, shorter is just so much more gratifying / empowering, and FUN!)
However, having a SHENIS that is to my specifications, eliminates ~99% of the "Common Off the Shelf (COTS)" chasity cage options.
For a woman as myself, it excludes all those cute and hot cage options one might find in adult stores or online.
If you are lucky to even squeeze in, its outright DANGEROUS, because you run the risk of edema (speaking from lived experience), and may be challenged to get it off (once the blood has flown in, gets trapped, and is then unable to drain off again.)
There have been several cases of this for myself, when my SHENIS became trapped (after I had become aroused, or even from simple "morning wood" (as I wear cages 24/7, including overnight and to sleep.)
In one particular case, I had to use a SHENIS "sounding rod" to try and "make a gap" that I would then squirt lube into, and also via the "pee slot" in the front, then try and work the chastity tube to spread it within.
I (barely) escaped it, after at least ~60 long hard minutes of concerted / careful effort.
I was additionally motivated, as was unclear when next my wife/KH would next "require the usage of Her SHENIS" (as I always aspire to keep harmony in the home.)
For sake of reference, my SHENIS specifications are:
43 mm (soft) x 101 mm (soft) / 203 mm+ (hard)
Also, for those with peeked interest, "Cherry Keeper" is the vendor I finally landed upon, as their founder is also a beautiful trans Woman, and makes lots of options available both for color and size (the WIDE series is what barely fits me, but at least not at risk any more.)
