CFNM
A group for clothed females to chat to naked males and to watch them masturbate.
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CFNM at the Beach
Return to DiscussionsWhen I was in my early 20s, I used to go to a beach that was clothing optional. Almost all of the men went nude, but very few of the women. The few women who did go nude were usually with their boyfriends. I think the reason why so few women went nude was because there were a lot of gawkers. I remember one time when three girls let me sit next to them. They couldn't have been older than 19. Thay all had on swimsuits. I had actually put my swimsuit back on before approaching them because I didn't want to make them feel uncomfortable. After chatting for a while, I asked them if it would be okay if I took it off. One of my favorite things to do was to sunbathe nude in front of women who had their swimsuits on. One of the girls said that it would be okay, so I took it off. The contrast between their being "clothed" and my being completely nude was VERY exciting. I felt so exposed. Also, they looked so nice in their suits. I was so horny, I wanted to fuck them. As soon as I took my swimsuit off, I got an erection. It was sticking right up. The girls could see everything. I didn't bother to turn onto my stomach or try to hide it. I figured that I would just let them see me the way that I was.
No, there wasn't any physical interaction. It was pure exhibitionism. I wanted them to see how hard I got. The one girl who saw me first looked rather shocked. I don't think she was expecting to see me that way. After that, I went swimming. When I returned, I sunbathed next to the girls again.
Beach boners just feel wonderful. I used to stay hard for hours on beaches, with short periods of softness in between long hard stretches. Women are very split in their reactions: they tend to either love it or be disgusted by it. It is my impression that the former group tends to be more fun, with a healthier life outlook, on the whole. Same with guys.
Beach boners just feel wonderful. I used to stay hard for hours on beaches, with short periods of softness in between long hard stretches. Women are very split in their reactions: they tend to either love it or be disgusted by it. It is my impression that the former group tends to be more fun, with a healthier life outlook, on the whole. Same with guys.
I agree with you that women are very split in their reactions. I don't know why a woman would be disgusted just because a man had an erection at a clothing optional or nude beach. But if you were hard "for hours", I can see how a woman might not like that. It would also be disgusting if a man masturbated in front of a woman who didn't want to see that.
One of the three women who I got an erection in front of at the clothing optional beach looked like she was a bit shocked. I don't think she was expecting to see me that way. I think they were concerned that guys would hit on them. It was a safety issue. They didn't want to be molested. That also may have been why they kept their swimsuits on. I didn't bother to hide myself, but I also didn't stay hard the entire time I was with them either. It wasn't my intention to offend them or make them feel uncomfortable. But I will confess that the CFNM situation was a turn on for me. I wanted them to see me. The fact that they looked very nice in their swimsuits added to my excitement.
Surely, they must have expected that something like that could happen. I sometimes wonder whether woman feel that a guy who gets an erection is not a gentleman because, if he would only have clean thoughts, he should be able to avoid becoming aroused.
I actually had a reaction like that from a different woman at that beach. She was with a female friend. They were both in their early to mid-thirties (and married) while I was 24. They both wore one-piece swimsuits but they lowered their tops down so they could get some sun on their breasts. I was completely nude. I spontaneously got an erection. It was not intentional. One of the women commented to me that I must have wanted to have sex with her. She meant it in a way so as to indicate that she didn't want to be hit on. I denied that that was my intention. After that, everything was cool.
I had an experience at a nude beach where I deliberately kept my swimsuit on in front of a young lady (who also had her swimsuit on) because i was very concerned that I would get an erection in front of her. Many guys at that beach were nude so that was not the issue. I just wanted to get to know the girl without the sexual aspects getting in the way. I deliberately avoided a CFNM situation because I knew that it would be too arousing for me. Looking back, I think what I should have done was to take my swimsuit off, but not until after I had talked with her for a while. She was with two girlfriends, one of which was nude, so that would have been okay. But at that young age, I didn't have much control. I would have surely gotten hard.
What a good story! Do you have any other similar experiences you can share?
Yes, I had other experiences where I was nude in front of women at a clothing optional beach who were wearing swimsuits. As I mentioned in a previous post, this beach had a number of gawkers, so the women were often hesitant to go nude. I guess I looked harmless enough, so they sometimes let me sit next to them.
One time, I was sitting next to two girls I had just met. They were in their early 20s. I was completely nude but they had swimsuits on. After chatting with them for a while, I was quietly lying on my back with my eyes closed enjoying the sun. That was when I let myself get an erection. I heard one of the girls whisper to the other, "He's erect." The other girl responded that she knew. Obviously, they had whispered too loudly to keep me from hearing what they said. I enjoyed letting them see me.
I think part of the thrill for me in being nude in front of women who had their swimsuits on was my feeling of vulnerability. They got to see every inch of my naked body while they remained modestly dressed. The circumstances seemed so unequal. I had to use my X-ray vision to imagine them naked. I could see their sexy legs and feet and their swimsuit covered pussies and their cleavage but that was it. I often thought about fucking them. At the same time, I didn't stare at them. The fact that I didn't have a girlfriend at the time only made my horniness worse.
I loved letting women see me when I was turned on. My erection showed them how horny I was and that I was interested in them sexually. They could see my potential for satisfying them and for giving them a good fuck. There was no mystery as to how big and hard I got. They could see that! That gave them a good idea of what it would be like to have me inside of them.
I don't want to give the impression that I was continually lusting after the women or blatantly exposing myself.. It wasn't my intention to be disrespectful.
I should have said that, even though the women at the clothing optional beach could see how big my erection was, there was still a lot of mystery remaining. They wouldn't know how excited I got when I had an orgasm. They also wouldnt know how powerfully or how much I ejaculated. That would have given them a better idea of how good I could make them feel. That would have been the ultimate reveal.
There were a few times at that beach when I got so excited that I was at risk of losing control and having an orgasm that I didnt intend to happen. I doubt that any of the women would have wanted to see that, especially if I was sitting close to them. That would have been too much. But I wasn't too concerned that women would be offended just because they saw me with an erection. I reasoned that, knowing what kind of beach this was, they must have realized that some of the men might become erect.