A man from Singapore pointed out that Bi includes adesire for sex from both men and women. It includes straight andgay sex. I do like both. So there is no need for tags likeBi/straight or Bi/gay.
While I agree the need for labels is somewhat meaningless, I do
think there is a difference between bi/str8 and bi/gay. There is also just bi. From my conversations with many guys, it
appears to me that most guys lean more toward one side or the
other. Many bisexuals are often married men or recently
divorced or widowed, who also enjoy a man from time to time.
I have chatted with a lot of basically gay guys with husbands
or partners who might enjoy sharing a women as part of a couple,
but often not one on one. There are a few guys that really do
enjoy each in fairly equal amounts. I am thinking that maybe
str8/bi or gay/bi might describe people better. I have also
noticed a fairly common theme that as men age for various reasons,
they slide more to the gay side.
Not very often I get a 3 way with a couple. About a year ago I had a hookup with a 24 YO guy that wanted his dick sucked. I arrived at his apartment and called him on his cell phone and he paused a little then said he wasn't home yet but would be home soon. In fact he was in his apartment with his girl friend that showed up unexpectedly not long before I did. After about an hour I called him again. He finally told me his girl friend was there and wanted to know if it was OK for her to watch me suck his dick . I told him to ask her if I could eat her pussy . He talked to her a little and said she said yes and to come to his front door. When I got in door both of them were naked (I am real sure they had been fucking) and I got undressed also. I sucked his dick for a while but his dick acted like it had just dumped a load so I turned to his girl friend. By the way she acted I don't think she had ever had any body eat her pussy before. In no time she let out a deep long moan and scream while she grabbed the back of my head and held my face in her . I ate her repeatedly besides going back to her boyfriend between. He never did get off but she told me she came 8 times. I never did hear from that guy again. I think his girlfriend (soon became his X girlfriend) wanted a replay but he wouldn't tell her my phone number. Oh well.
I have been bi all my adult life, but in the last few years I have moved to the gay side. As much as I like women I find great pleasure in my homosexual activity!
Lie you have been bi all my life or since I was 12 but nowadays all my sex has been with men only and I love it when a guy slips his cock in me. I am strictly a bottom with guys.
I have always enjoyed smooth bodies of both sexes. I know I am more on the gay side than Bi. I love smooth cocks inside me. I do love smooth female bodies and pussy juice. While not really interested in intercourse with females like I love being fucked by males with smooth bodies and getting their cum.
Why is it okay for a woman to be bi (even to be considered normal), but it is not really okay for a man to be bi. Sometimes I like looking at a woman with nice tits and sometimes I like looking at a guy with a nice cock. Sometimes I like a woman's mouth around my cock and sometimes a man's. Plus it is nice to fuck a man's asshole and it is nice to fuck a woman's asshole. Why decide?
Because one is men with men which is still stigmatized in our larger culture and is and has been the focus of a multi decade religious conservative campaign to set back the advances gay men have made politically socially and intellectually partly as punishment for getting out of the closet in the first place but also because homophobic hate has always been a major asset to the state and its social engineering.
There's something in the women with women that's also affected by homophobia but there's a really important line between how lesbian women or bi women fit into popular culture. If they are there for a man's entertainment ie porn erotica models servers film and tv literature etc they're acceptable. If they're not the farther away from the feminine stereotypes they are the less acceptable and seen as deserving violence or erasure.
When you're with a group of people who are mostly hetero bi and male and female it's probably not going to be a place where there's not much stigma either way. When it's just one side then another male or female only etc. Then it can be further divided and is in the world ... say to men gay and bi only. You are going to get some gay men who might stigmatize your pussy pleasure. It's understandable even if I don't condone it and the same is true in more women's oriented spaces... except it's being male and into women. Some is straight up biological reality and competition. The rest is cultural.
Don't let it get you down. Be proud and confident and enjoy your self as you are. Speak out against both homophobia and misogyny when you encounter it. And realize that sometimes their just being total wank stations.
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