Disability and the lifestyle

So my fianc and I have a unique problem, actually a couple, we are both very much interesting in the swinging and nude lifestyle but we are complete newbies to this stuff. I have searched online for clubs and resorts and the like but have been coming up empty so far.

So issue one is, as I said, just finding a place. We live in Michigan, a state known for being a frozen hellscape for six months out of the year and cold/wet for most of the rest, not to mention issues with urbanization, so we lack very many resorts/destination type places and traveling is a financial and logistical challenge for us. Which leads to our unique issue: My fianc is disabled and in a wheelchair, she cannot stand or walk on her own, not even short distances and most such venues are not even remotely accessible and are not interested in fixing that either (for example a certain well known destination in the Bahamas, which has plenty of stairs but no elevators or ramps anywhere at all),

So wherever we go must be wheelchair accessible and friendly, something which most clubs and such I have found online seem to seriously struggle with, so my question is, where can we go? The second obvious issue is the chair itself which most people dont exactly see as a turn on, unfortunately we have found most people to be rather shallow and closed minded regarding disability so we need someplace/someone who will accept us and be patient. Add to that that neither of us is exactly built like a Greek God (unless Greek Gods have dad bods) and our own restrictions, specifically that she is bisexual but I am very very strictly straight and she (due to past trauma) is not really interested in any men besides me, watching is OK, but strictly no touching which means we only want unicorns or couples where the male does not participate at all besides maybe jerking off watching. Any suggestions on where we can turn there?

Alternatively, if a regular destination is not possible, who can we network with to do it privately just between friends? How/where can we make those connections? We are both very new to this and know no one in this lifestyle, at all, whatsoever, and beyond searching for forums like this one have no clue where to start, can you help?

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