Climax

I used condoms from the age of about 20 until approximately 18 months ago . I'd fuck pull out take of the condom and ejaculate and remained HIV negative, as a few of my friends sadly passed away from aids I'm grateful that safer sex means I'm still here, however 18 months ago I began taking prep so I can now go bare , but unfortunately years of condom use mean that when I'm fucking a guy I can't cum while I'm inside him . Has anyone else ever experienced this and if so can you let me know how I can overcome this

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RE:Climax

well I'm a bottom but I've had a few guys go limp or semi limp doing my hole both with a condom and bareback and like anything with the cock a lot has to do on concentration. what you may try to overcome this let your partner stroke you or suck you to near climax than enter his hole and fuck him hard .

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RE:Climax

I used condoms from the age of about 20 until approximately 18 months ago . I'd fuck pull out take of the condom and ejaculate and remained HIV negative, as a few of my friends sadly passed away from aids I'm grateful that safer sex means I'm still here, however 18 months ago I began taking prep so I can now go bare , but unfortunately years of condom use mean that when I'm fucking a guy I can't cum while I'm inside him . Has anyone else ever experienced this and if so can you let me know how I can overcome this

I think it may have more to do with age-related factors than your years of using a condom. As we get older, our sensitivity decreases--that's just a fact. But if you have a willing partner (can go for a long fuck), I'd just be patient and change positions a few times to stimulate the cock from different angles. Also, familiarity with a partner, vs random partners, can make a difference.

Clearly, you made the right choice, here you are with this problem! And at least here in the US, there's a good case for continuing use of condoms if you have a lot of partners. We're having a big resurgence of difficult-to-treat STDs.

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