I touch my wife a lot at the resort (which she actually likes) and sometimes - in the "moment" - I get a surge of affection for her and hold her close to me. My penis doesn't usually touch her body (and I don't think it will...until it does...) and my physical reaction to it is often instantaneous. For my wife it's a visual confirmation that I still get hard for her; so she doesn't mind at all lol! On the other hand if I hug someone at the resort and my penis touches her; I don't have a reaction. It's specific to my wife. My cock has a mind of its own and decides that if it touches my wife; it's time to have sex.
You are right about your cock having a mind of its own. I have experienced that many times. But maybe when you hug a woman other than your wife, your mind subconsciously puts out warning signals not to become aroused because of the embarrassment that might cause.
When you unintentionally became hard when bear hugging your wife at the nudist resort, it was the possibility of getting into trouble that was your greater concern, not the embarrassment of having an erection. If you were to have an erection while hugging a woman who is not your wife, that would be an entirely different matter. Even if there was no risk of getting into trouble, you might be VERY embarrassed, depending upon the circumstances.
Years ago, my wife and I would visit a nudist camp that was very rustic. There was no swimming pool. We would sunbathe on the grass near the pond. I remember when one of the young guys got an erection while quietly sunbathing with his girlfriend. He didn't bother to hide it. No one seemed to care. Similarly, one time I got an erection in front of a female member while I was sunbathing next to my wife. No one else happened to be around. I didn't bother to hide it either. In my case, it was more deliberate than unintentional. I wanted the person to see me erect. I guess that makes me a bit of an exhibitionist. No harm done, I wouldn't have done that if I thought I would get in trouble.
There was an embarrassing incident that wasn't intentional. We were at the rustic nudist camp. I was standing talking with the owner when my wife bent over to get something out of our cooler. The view of her lovely breasts dangling and of her firm little ass was too much for me. I instantly got a full erection. Since I was still standing there talking with the owner, there wasn't anything I could do about it. Of course, my wife spotted my erection right away. I was hoping that the owner wouldn't see it, but he suddenly did. He didn't look too pleased. He didn't say anything though. After he left, my wife asked me, "Is that all it takes?" The answer, of course, was that my cock has a mind of its own. LOL
I was embarrassed, but it could have been worse. My decision at that moment was that there wasn't anything that I could do about it so I might as well just stand there with my erection in full view.
"Who is around to see it" is also a big factor, for me at least. Just one couple is much different from a crowd of people.
I've talked about the guy at the BnB with his GF, who played pool late at night with my wife and I; and had an erection most of the time. It was just the four of us; and none of his indicated any discomfort interacting with him and his hard cock. So he had no reason to be embarrassed.
Many years ago, my ex-wife and I were very good friends with another nudist couple, One morning, while we were staying over at her place, I woke up early and headed downstairs; sporting morning wood. I didn't expect her to be up, and she saw me and my hard cock heading down the stairs. She took one good look at it; and then simply asked me if I wanted some coffee. I had a momentary "uh-oh"; but then felt comfortable with her seeing me hard. We had a fairly intimate relationship anyway; so we didn't have much left to each other's imagination.
Different story when there's a bunch of people around, especially if you're at a "regular" resort. I've talked before of how my ex once "pranked me" by causing me an erection while in the pool; and after a few minutes standing in the pool, it didn't seem to want to go down. So I exited the pool hard. I was red in the face because there were 10/15 people around me. Had it been just another couple, I probably would have just walked back normally to our lounge chairs instead of trying to "tuck my tail between my legs" lol!
"Who is around to see it" is also a big factor, for me at least. Just one couple is much different from a crowd of people.I've talked about the guy at the BnB with his GF, who played pool late at night with my wife and I; and had an erection most of the time. It was just the four of us; and none of his indicated any discomfort interacting with him and his hard cock. So he had no reason to be embarrassed.Many years ago, my ex-wife and I were very good friends with another nudist couple, One morning, while we were staying over at her place, I woke up early and headed downstairs; sporting morning wood. I didn't expect her to be up, and she saw me and my hard cock heading down the stairs. She took one good look at it; and then simply asked me if I wanted some coffee. I had a momentary "uh-oh"; but then felt comfortable with her seeing me hard. We had a fairly intimate relationship anyway; so we didn't have much left to each other's imagination.Different story when there's a bunch of people around, especially if you're at a "regular" resort. I've talked before of how my ex once "pranked me" by causing me an erection while in the pool; and after a few minutes standing in the pool, it didn't seem to want to go down. So I exited the pool hard. I was red in the face because there were 10/15 people around me. Had it been just another couple, I probably would have just walked back normally to our lounge chairs instead of trying to "tuck my tail between my legs" lol!
The guy at the BnB was probably more of an exhibitionist. I recall that this happened while the 4 of you were playing pool. No doubt he got excited by watching your naked wife as well as his own girlfriend. He probably also made a calculation that he would continue playing pool that way since nothing was said. The incident at your friends' house where the woman saw you with your cock hard early in the morning was not a problem because she knew that it wasn't your intention to show yourself that way. The story about how your ex-wife "pranked" you by causing you to have an erection in the pool at the resort was another story. I like that she was being naughty by deliberately trying to embarrass you in front of all those people. Has your current wife ever been the instigator in causing you to be at risk of having an embarrassing erection?
Has your current wife ever been the instigator in causing you to be at risk of having an embarrassing erection?
Sort of.
Years ago we were vacationing in St Martin while still dating. Back then the entirety of Orient Bay was clothing-optional from dusk until morning. It was actually her idea to go for a walk on the beach...bottomless.
We were walking in the surf holding hands, when she suddenly switched from my hand to my penis lol! I got hard immediately and we just kept walking with my hard cock in her hand lol! So she was definitely the instigator; but there were barely any people on the beach. Even though I was a little "concerned" that someone might see us, they were too far away to pose a "risk."
Would she do something like that now? Around other people? I don't know for sure, but I wouldn't put it past her under the "right" circumstances. She always has a smirk on her face when she's flirting with me at the resort and I ask her to be careful because I might get an erection.
Would she do something like that now? Around other people? I don't know for sure, but I wouldn't put it past her under the "right" circumstances. She always has a smirk on her face when she's flirting with me at the resort and I ask her to be careful because I might get an erection.
The fact that you asked your wife to be careful when flirting with you at the nudist resort because you might get an erection that others could see tells me that this is a real concern for you. My guess is that she likes the idea that you are so vulnerable to her flirtation and that it wouldn't take much for her to get you hard and to embarrass you. But, like you. she also doesn't want to get into trouble. Under what circumstances do you think your wife might deliberately embarrass you? Have you given this much thought?
For me, it might be when my wife and I standing and chatting with another couple at the nudist club. She and I are completely naked. I don't even have a towel. There's no one else nearby. It's just the four of us. My wife starts being affectionate with me. Maybe she wants to kiss me. Maybe she puts her hand around my waist or on my ass. She knows that I am vulnerable, but she doesn't care. She wants me to get hard in front of the other coupe and to embarrass me. In this scenario, there isn't any risk of getting into trouble.
Under what circumstances do you think your wife might deliberately embarrass you? Have you given this much thought?
A realistic scenario...hmmm...
My wife and I will occasionally stay at a nudist venue overnight. After a day spent naked, we'll usually have a bottle of wine, get tipsy, and stay up late. And be all over each other, being frisky; especially if there's no one else around. The last time we did this we groped each other as we watched the sun set (very romantic).
I can imagine a scenario where another couple "catches us at the right time", and starts engaging with us.
Once my wife feels "frisky", she can't turn it off as easily as I can. So I can see her being so aroused at that moment that she does not "disengage" and keeps her body glued to mine; knowing it would likely result in an erection. If the other couple felt "open-minded and friendly"; she'd likely react the same way she does when someone "friendly" catches her sunbathing with her legs open: nonchalantly. I would be embarrassed; she would find it sexy.
As I've said before; normally my wife is a "modest" nudist. But when she's "turned on", that modesty goes out the window.
normally my wife is a "modest" nudist. But when she's "turned on", that modesty goes out the window.
My wife has occasionally been that way at our nudist camp. She tends to get silly after having a glass or two of wine, especially when we are at the dances in the clubhouse. When that happens, she becomes less concerned about getting us into trouble. By late in the evening, other people have been drinking too, so it's less likely that anyone will make a complaint. The rest of the time, she behaves very modestly.
I recall one time when she danced naked with a male friend. He and his wife had been sitting with us at a table when he asked my wife to dance with him. He was naked but my wife still had clothes on because it was cool in the clubhouse that night. But when he asked her to dance with him, she quickly got naked, tossing her clothes at me. Her "modesty" had obviously gone "out the window". The result of this was that he got an erection while dancing with her. She told me later that it was poking against her stomach. She thought that was very funny. I don't know if he became embarrassed or not but if that happened to me while I was dancing with a woman who was not my wife, I know that I would have been very embarrassed.
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