Loving sex and passionate feelings between men

Most guys out there are mainly attracted by the physical, by visual stimulation of an attractive male body, large cock, body hair (shaved or natural), etc. But some guys (like me) are more attracted by the loving chemistry between men... i.e. the feelings, the emotions, the passion, the kissing, naked body hugging, soft penis tugging and the affectionate touching..!
Even though I am a very butch / masculine gay guy, I have very deep feelings and I also get turned on sexually by the deeper connection that I feel with a partner than only by his physical appearance .. :0) sure, there should be physical attraction between us too, but when it comes to doing the deed, making Love, I gotta feel connected emotionally to my partner, else I just dont enjoy it as much and i dont perform that well...
Anyone else out there feel the same as me about Loving sex and passionate feelings with your male partner..?

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You have much maturity for one so young, Golemsa!

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Well said my friend.... Plain physical sex can be fun sometimes, but when there's a nice, deeper connection, it's magical.

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Often, it is the look in his eyes and his sense of humour that makes me want to jump his bones.

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I don't know about you guys, but just having this discussion is getting me excited...

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Agree. Connection affection passion.

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I am always looking for a good guy to give him some love and respect to show him how much he means to me. I am very exasperated looking for such a good friend that I tried my best to make it happen and I must just be in the wrong place for a great time with a great guy who loves me. I would love to be a good friend who is laid-back and uninhibited to someone that loves me and I would be forever loyal to him but there is no one interested in becoming more involved than just a quick romp in the bedroom.

I can still move on to the next place but where is it located? I am always moving somewhere else and I am very tired of it. If I ever get a good friend who is loving I will show you how much I love him and give a whole new meaning to loyalty.

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I am on board with you 100%. I love a nice smile, a twinkle in the eye, a great sense of humor. If the chemistry is there body parts are pretty much the same. I love the passion, the connection and my heart beating just from being with the guy.

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Most guys out there are mainly attracted by the physical, by visual stimulation of an attractive male body, large cock, body hair (shaved or natural), etc. But some guys (like me) are more attracted by the loving chemistry between men... i.e. the feelings, the emotions, the passion, the kissing, naked body hugging, soft penis tugging and the affectionate touching..!Even though I am a very butch / masculine gay guy, I have very deep feelings and I also get turned on sexually by the deeper connection that I feel with a partner than only by his physical appearance .. :0) sure, there should be physical attraction between us too, but when it comes to doing the deed, making Love, I gotta feel connected emotionally to my partner, else I just dont enjoy it as much and i dont perform that well...Anyone else out there feel the same as me about Loving sex and passionate feelings with your male partner..?

I would say I am attracted to both the physical and the loving energy given received and exchanged, but I find a very wide range of bodies shapes and sizes sexy, love all penises, and the physical is erotic when the spiritual and emotional is the first attraction and it grows as we progress. I've noticed that I don't have my "ed" when I am being loved and cared for. I stopped using porn a very long time ago and that really helps to focus the feelings and the positive energy and openness that make connections so much more than they are usually. Finding a partner to explore this with is harder than one might expect.

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Even the sex I have had that started out as just a fuck because I was hard ended with a great deal of empathy for my partner. I am not equally affectionate to all, but good sex is always a negotiation with someone, a tuning of bodies, and if you achieve that, I think it is hard to avoid affection.

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Do you guys think that that porn is a barrier because I just enjoy it more than risking getting hurt if I meet someone socially? Im open to meeting a nice guy I dont think porn is preventing me from meeting people but my fear is I like to be nude at home and after Im finished with work I watch porn. Let me know what you think

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