New to BB and Prep Update
Not sure if I qualify for this group or not, I started taking Prep on Friday as it was getting increasingly difficult to have sex with another guy who was happy for me to use a condom, so I decided that I need to go bare too if I'm going to continue having a sex life, strangely enough I hooked up with a guy who said he was a bottom but would only let me fuck him if I used a condom, which is also fine with me , I've also tried sex raw too, I enjoy it but I don't want to reject a guy who wants me to use a rubber , I'm open to both and with Prep I now know I'm not going to contract H hiv , but I'll need to test for other STI's ,I might post more later on how my journey with prep and going bare is progressing as it's still very early days and I'm still getting my head round it,
I thought I'd give and update on my journey with Prep and bare back sex as it's a year since I created the original post :
I've began to relax more when doing bareback , and prep has made me open to enjoying sex more, I still haven't been able to cum inside a guy without pulling out jerking out and shoving my cock back in a guy;s ass before I cum but I'm sure we;ll get there , the second thing I decided was to become more vers ( although the bottom to top ratio seems to be a huge obstacle, lol )
I was lucky enough to meet a wonderful guy from Amsterdam ( via the USA) who is vers , I told him about my desire to become more vers and he obliged we flipped for about and hour or so , I eventually came , ( after withdrawing and jerking off and reinserting ) he got excited about my cum inside him , we met later again that Evening and flipped again my ass was really aching but the experience was enjoyable , I also met up with an Italin guy over here ( UK ) who came round to fuck me , he knew I was new to bottoming , he told me that my ass was tight and like a virgin's but then added he enjoyed it unfortunately he couldn't cum , then suddenly last week , I went to a sauna , I saw this young guy he had been playing with a gu's cock and the other guy shot, so young man was still horny, we had some fun and I asked if he was top or bottom, he told me vers , I expalined that I'm mainly a top but want to become more vers we went to a room and I started heading towards his ass, rimming him and he started on my cock, before I know it I was fucking him and realised I had to change my approach, I said to him I don't want to cum because I want you to fuck me... he jumped at the chance, he did't have a huge cock which I was pleased about and he changed positions and fucked me , he came quickly,,, again great asd my ass is new to all this , but he is actually the first and at the time of writing the only guy to cum inside me
I was so excited I had to jerk off and cum,as we left the room another younger guy, who I suspect likes older men approached me and asked if I'd cum I said unfortunately yes , but I might be okay later I had a shower came back to where he was , I was so shocked that I managed to take his cock as I'd only cum a few minutes earlier and he had a monster cock, but he was great, lots of words of encouragement and poppers ( legal in the UK) I couldn't believe it , I came for a second time, he didn;t but didn't seem to mind , everyone I've met since is a bottom but I will be happy to have more BB sex either as a top and as a bottom , although I now seem to have a huge fantasy about getting fucked by much younger men .... so hot
I only do bareback and I am bottom 95%of the time. All of my regular tops, including several married men, fuck me bareback and always have. The only difference I notice with PrEP is that occasionally, with a new top, he is more willing to go bare when I tell him I am on PrEP. Getting fucked with a condom is not really having sex for me. I need to feel the top's bare cock, skin to skin, and then of course I want the reward of feeling him shoot his load inside me.
I have been using PreP for about 4 or 5 years now. All bottom, and all bare. Even before I was onPrep it was 98% bare. I always left it up to the top. Very few used a condom, or even asked what I preferred. And I agree with the above, even in last year I've been fucked by young and older and none used a condom. Like was mentioned above, I love cum, in mouth or ass.
I've been bottoming for a kong time. Although I don't have much sex because of time constraints, when I do, I have them fuck me bare. 95% of my men have been married guys who's wives don't take care of them. I'm not on Prep and I haven't contracted anything. I feel okay with my choices.
Not sure if I qualify for this group or not, I started taking Prep on Friday as it was getting increasingly difficult to have sex with another guy who was happy for me to use a condom, so I decided that I need to go bare too if I'm going to continue having a sex life, strangely enough I hooked up with a guy who said he was a bottom but would only let me fuck him if I used a condom, which is also fine with me , I've also tried sex raw too, I enjoy it but I don't want to reject a guy who wants me to use a rubber , I'm open to both and with Prep I now know I'm not going to contract H hiv , but I'll need to test for other STI's ,I might post more later on how my journey with prep and going bare is progressing as it's still very early days and I'm still getting my head round it,
PrEP is by far the more statistically safer and more reliable method for men having anal sex with men... 99% effective which is as high as you get in stats, whereas condoms, by brand have been rated as low as 85% but 95% to 97% would be average. My take is that first, you do the very basic explanation around risk and serosorting and ask him gently and frankly, does he do it raw? Because tons of guys still take raw cock cause buddy said he was neg and stigmatize PrEP users for a variety of reasons that are cultural and deeply engrained thinking the rubber somehow is safer or makes it safer which it empirically does not, just evidence that the guy is afraid which, no one should ever be to that point, its unfair and not fun... taking PrEP responsibly is you taking the very best care of yourself and your partners... so you need to really give yourself that respect and be proud of yourself. All the others transmit very well without anal or despite a condom and the most important thing is to be aware of your body, get regular check ups and if it doesnt feel right, both on his end or yours, dont do it... Im poz but have had zero virus in my blood and semen for 25 years now, and I dont use condoms ever....hate them. I also don't expect to fuck anyone or not be turned down as a result but I dont compromise on the rubber cause its like half way turned down, for me... I also want to know the person I am fucking knows beyond a shadow of a doubt that no virus means its impossible to get a virus... (makes sense), otherwise it will be complications at some point, as I prefer to have repeats now as opposed to one night stands (but I didnt skimp on those before lol) My view is ultimately that you deserve a man who is willing to accept you and your seed without concern because he is informed but also because he wants that and wants you to have it. Rather than look at it from the perspective of the other guy who is "turned down" shouldnt your pleasure come first in that process? It doesnt mean dont consider others, just that you are not obliged to have sex that is not exactly what you wanted because of someone else's feelings. You can, but the question I asked myself when that was a thing I did waaaayyyy worse than this by a mile was...did I enjoy that enough and was it at all respecting myself? And the answer was in some cases no... which is just me as a "what not to do" cause I have a few of those that are useful lol. It will take time like you said, you can't turn around a train overnight but... your semen is completely safe (except for fertile women and pregnancy) as you ensured it for now and for always, and you should have zero worry about it. and the pleasure of fucking someone who knows that and is taking you with abandon because they know that... well that is in my experience a superior fuck all the way around... there's lots of men in that boat, I want you to experience lots of that bud,,, you deserve it.
I've been bottoming for a kong time. Although I don't have much sex because of time constraints, when I do, I have them fuck me bare. 95% of my men have been married guys who's wives don't take care of them. I'm not on Prep and I haven't contracted anything. I feel okay with my choices.
Do you have German or Dutch ancestry? By the picture it wouldn't be out of place... I ask cause that particular subgroup genetically, most particularly plague survivors (my direct Black Forest ancestors won the prize, surviving the most plagues of any group in the world, 17 all told ) but all over Northern Europe similar but smaller genetic pools carrying the genetic mutation that allowed people to live through continuous pestolence exist... one parent gives you an immune system that makes HIV kill itself most of the time, and both makes you able to carry small amounts, but never infected because the immune system makes each virus copy itself wrong and the copies can't copy and they die, it fails to infect because our lymphocites reprogram it to self destruct. My sense is you have a gift of an immune system but... just really lucky is possible too. I kinda think the x-men immunity mutation is cooler but I am of course, biased. Irish, Scottish, Danish, Norweigan, Russian, Polish, Latvian, Italian, Croatian basically all the European nationalities outside of the Basque and Sami, and a few other groups that genetically predate indo europeans have 1 or more percent of the population with the genes. Its not anything you can get diagnosed without a specific test and there's really no reason for that unless, you have both line mutation for the full effect. Then medical science will want to take samples. Which again, is not for me an upside.
I think PrEP gives you the freedom to choose or sometimes make a mistake. Condoms help reduce STIs which really do suck but the freedom of going bare is full of pleasure. It is also good defense for those guys who will demand to use a condom but sneakily break it or take it off and load your ass up with cum. I even had guys pretend like they didn't cum and later I can feel the cum leaking out! Lol.
Not sure if I qualify for this group or not, I started taking Prep on Friday as it was getting increasingly difficult to have sex with another guy who was happy for me to use a condom, so I decided that I need to go bare too if I'm going to continue having a sex life, strangely enough I hooked up with a guy who said he was a bottom but would only let me fuck him if I used a condom, which is also fine with me , I've also tried sex raw too, I enjoy it but I don't want to reject a guy who wants me to use a rubber , I'm open to both and with Prep I now know I'm not going to contract H hiv , but I'll need to test for other STI's ,I might post more later on how my journey with prep and going bare is progressing as it's still very early days and I'm still getting my head round it,
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You make a lot of really good points and now after all these months of being on prep ,as a top I think it's only right that a guy I'm fucking can let me know condoms or bare I'll do either I recently fucked a guy at a sauna, he wanted me to use a condom which I did when we changed position or on one occasion pull out I asked him if he wanted to check I was still wearing one ,I don't believe in tricking guys into taking it bare if they don't want to,
Later on I met another guy who wanted fucked but insisted on bare and I was only too happy to oblige and the sex was a lot more spontaneous I eventually came but on him rather than in him and have still got to have my first experience of Cumming inside a guy . . I hope one day that will happen, in the meantime I still take regular HIV ,Sti tests and kidney function test every time I go to get my new supply of prep ,
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