If you have swinger clubs around, Id say go check them out. Talk to the folks there. They can tell you the best way to start.Also, when using the M/F system, each combination means something.MFM = 2 straight males, single female,FMF = 2 straight females, single male,MMF = 2 bisexual males, single female,FFM = 2 bisexual females, single male,MMM = gay male,FFF = gay females.And then any combination after that.
I find this very fascinating. But I have been the M in the MMF and I consider myself gay, and why can't MMM be two bi men and a gay dude or FFF be two bi women and a lesbian (my sister's wife is bi and she is lesbian does she not still get to be bi in that relationship or am I just not getting all the way there)? I get the first set of distinctions. Opposites only no likes for those who are that way, makes sense. But then there's the weird assumption (or what I see as being that) that men and women who are in a MMF or FFM are bi, or is that more about what's expected? Like, if you agree to do it, you can't then say well I just want him not her or vice versa? Or is that the any combination after that because typing it all out was getting tiresome? I am legitimately asking cause I don't know, never did a formal swingers deal but clearly, have found myself in situations, lol not that I am complaining about it. Cheers.