Straight Acting Gay
I don't know if calling it 'fortunate' is correct, but as a gay man, I've never been questioned about my preference. I am a masculine, straight-appearing guy. It's not an act. it's just me. I've known I was gay since I was about twelve. But I've also always been into sports of just about any kind. I played football in high school and college, swimming and wrestling. I've always had a bunch of straight friends that would never guess I'm gay unless I volunteered the information. Being as masculine and straight-appearing has it's advantages for a gay man. You become 'one of the guys'. You develop a bond and trust together. I have to admit, it's been easy for me getting straight guys to do what I want. In high school, I was on the swimming team. I had a 'thing' for our captain, Joe. Joe was a tall, blonde, good looking guy, with a hairless body. We had similar personalities and became best friends. We did a lot of stuff outside of school together. One evening, after swimming practice, everybody else left the pool, just Joe and I remained in the pool. I suggested we get rid of the suits and swim naked. It took a little coaxing, but he finally agreed. I seemed to be very good at getting guy's to take their clothes off. At my gym, I met a guy and we hit it off together. He told me all about his wife, his kids. I talked to him about a car I was restoring. We shared a lot with each other. I asked him if he'd like to come over my house sometime, use my pool, lay out on the deck? Naked? He didn't hesitate to ask... when? I don't seem to have much of a problem finding guy's at my gym that want to join me naked. Naked with straight guy's usually leads to something else. I think it's because the guys I meet think I'm just one of them. Once you have their trust, confidence and assured discretion, straight guys will do just about anything you want. A lot of that has to do with how little they get at home. After a kid or two, sex at home comes to an end. Not too many guys want to refuse a blow job from another guy. This is just my own personal life experience.
I have like guys ever since my brothers had me give them head for 4 years. I was 8 yrs old. By the time I turned 12 and my hormones changed, I was getting hard ons looking at men. I would look at a guy at school go into the boys restroom go into a stall and get one off. I even did a few off the guys on our Cross Country Team. when I wax 16 my older brother who was in the Navy was 18 came to visit. I wanted service so one night my mother and step father went out. We had the house to ourselves. He got nude and said I need a head. I said no problem. I then asked if he would fuck me. He said no problem. After a few moments it started to hurt. I asked him to stop. I was crying and he told me I was a virgin and he kept fucking me. Finally he stopped, that was the last time him and I did anything. Than when I was in my 20s my step-brother messed around. By that time my hole was ready for a cock. He would call me over to his apartment so he could get off. He would fuck me and have me service until got off. Than I would leave. I know I like guys, I know who I am. I do not tell very many people. I am now married with 1 child and yes, our sex has dropped but for the same reasons most men do not get enough at home. I come on here to look. Not sure if I will hook up with a guy again. If I was put in a situation where a man dropped his pants. I probably will take of him. Today, I swallow. Back in days I never took a mans load.
I don't know if calling it 'fortunate' is correct, but as a gay man, I've never been questioned about my preference. I am a masculine, straight-appearing guy. It's not an act. it's just me. I've known I was gay since I was about twelve. But I've also always been into sports of just about any kind. I played football in high school and college, swimming and wrestling. I've always had a bunch of straight friends that would never guess I'm gay unless I volunteered the information. Being as masculine and straight-appearing has it's advantages for a gay man. You become 'one of the guys'. You develop a bond and trust together. I have to admit, it's been easy for me getting straight guys to do what I want. In high school, I was on the swimming team. I had a 'thing' for our captain, Joe. Joe was a tall, blonde, good looking guy, with a hairless body. We had similar personalities and became best friends. We did a lot of stuff outside of school together. One evening, after swimming practice, everybody else left the pool, just Joe and I remained in the pool. I suggested we get rid of the suits and swim naked. It took a little coaxing, but he finally agreed. I seemed to be very good at getting guy's to take their clothes off. At my gym, I met a guy and we hit it off together. He told me all about his wife, his kids. I talked to him about a car I was restoring. We shared a lot with each other. I asked him if he'd like to come over my house sometime, use my pool, lay out on the deck? Naked? He didn't hesitate to ask... when? I don't seem to have much of a problem finding guy's at my gym that want to join me naked. Naked with straight guy's usually leads to something else. I think it's because the guys I meet think I'm just one of them. Once you have their trust, confidence and assured discretion, straight guys will do just about anything you want. A lot of that has to do with how little they get at home. After a kid or two, sex at home comes to an end. Not too many guys want to refuse a blow job from another guy. This is just my own personal life experience.
I'm in the same boat as you, but with me coming from more of a conservative religious background, guys are very overly modest in exposing themselves. LOL. Once in a great while I'll get one to let his guard down a little.