Squirting and gushing is not cumming.
These three are often commonly mistakenly thought as being the same thing but are not.
Gushing and squirting are similar in that they produce the same fluid but when a woman cums it can, depending on the individual lady, produce a completely different fluid and usually tends to be a much more intense and often whole body experience than squirting and gushing which are usually a more genital specific experience. The difference between squirting and gushing is purely a physical and muscular thing usually.
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You're correct, there is a very common misconception about all this and the ones who disagree with you are the ones who have no idea how to really please a woman. Porn is responsible for the wrong information as there squirting is nothing more than pissing. When a woman squirts it is NOT urine