Looking for advice concerned my fiance has mixed feelings

Hello everyone, new here and first time post. I'll give a little back drop then express my concerns. My fiance and I have been together for a year and a half. We are both very sexual and we have experimented with lots of activities. Last year we had sex together with another couple. It was totally unexpected but I did enjoy it and wanted to go a little further. While we didn't swap partners and only my buddies fiance went down on my fiance there was some light petting of our significant others. I have to admit although very turned on I was unable to perform. Sense then we have one other experience where I let my friend and my fiance have sex while I watched. Let's just say both experiences where less than the wanted desire. Okay to the point. I am really interested in continuing our experience with swinging but she has said a few things during sex and in conversation that make believe she has mixed feelings about it. She has also made a real point to say she would not be comfortable with me having sex with another female. Although I really enjoy watching her with another guy, I would like to also experience a fourway/couple sex. What are thoughts? Would welcome any advice.

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RE:Looking for advice concerned my fiance has mixed feelings

Hi.
In NO way is this meant to be in any way disrespectful but do you and your lady enjoy porn together? We assume her bi fun is enjoyable for her, so perhaps invest in some in that category.
We've found it to be rewarding, most satisfying and above all, FUN.
Oh, the ladies love it too...
Cheers,
Jane and Jon xx xx

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RE:Looking for advice concerned my fiance has mixed feelings

The key to pleasure is understanding each person's limits and never violate them. Limits and boundaries change over time, with patience, conversation. Traumas stay for a long time.

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