A new friend asked me if I knew how to teach a lady to squirt....
The following is the advice that I gave him:
Yes. I believe part of it is knowing the lady's pleasures and taking directions. If she says, "Keep going", keep licking and/or fingering. Kim Cattrall's book, The Art of the Female Orgasm, is helpful to have a wide range of ways to pleasure.... A lady that I chatted with years ago told me that she learned to squirt by making sure that her bladder was empty before sex/masturation. After becoming quite arroused, then she tried to pee.
Rick PS, I know the last part is kind of weird.... The first time for a lady came take some time but gets better with experience.
Please let me us know if you have better advise. I admit that I am relatively new to this exciting part of a woman's pleasure.
I was only ever able to make my wife squirt during oral sex when I would lick her for a long time and she would become very relaxed and open up to my tongue. I would lick the roof of her vagina near where I thought her g spot was and she would squirt all over the place. It was a very intense organism!
I actually taught my husband how to make me squirting and it has not once let him down. My formula is palm up, insert the two middle fingers. Then inside point your fingers up and tug back towards your body. Do this in a quick motion. Then check the sky for rain.