1st same sex encounter 1 male or 2--advise?
as some of u might just know, i've never been with another guy & i'm still not sure of my attraction to the same sex. i realize it's totally fine for me to want guys but still wondering how far things are meant to go. anyways i think it's something i do wanna experiance.
my question is, what are the pro's & con's of having my 1st same sex experiance be with 2 other guys as opposed to just 1 other guy? i'd love to hear ur guy's opinions & advise on this.
just in case anyone suggests it, i would love to be in a m-f 3sum someday too & if it worked out that would be my 1st exposure to the same sex i would be totally fine with it, but i'm leaning towards not wanting anyone of the opposite sex around when that happens.
Well.....as someone who has had lots of experiences with MFM, MMM, MM and MF sex, I can not answer your question. I will say that 3ways are my favorite sport ;)
What I would suggest is this.... Your first time should be with someone or a couple that you are attracted to, trust, are comfortable with and they know that its your first time. Your going to be nervous, so ya'll need to talk first, establish ground rules and be comfortable with each other. Hopefully, your first time will be with someone that understands, will take his time, go at your pace and be at your side afterwards. A cum and run scenario probably wont be very satisfying.
A drink or two, before hand, to take the edge off may be a good idea. Drunk however, is not a good idea.
My own first experience was very satisfying with one guy who did know I was inexperienced. But I am imagining that a couple might provide a very satisfying experience as long as they are aware and supportive of an inexperienced guy. Rick's advice is key. Guys you know and are comfortable with. And who aren't going to blow and go. Personally, I can dispense with the drinks but it can relax I suppose.
I agree with the other 2 responses. My first experience was with 1 guy and he went at my pace. We had talked about what we were doing and we hsd a great time. We also have much in common, so we hit it off quite well and we were comfortable with each other. He is an experienced gay man and i was curious. I am now not curious and completely comfortable with another man. I hsve hsd fun with 2 others since the first time.
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