just my opinion once a guy sucks a cock he is bi or at least bi curious and if he keeps sucking cock he is bi with gay tendency and anal weather giving or receiving gay alert lol. I've had a few straight friends I've sucked they're cocks but they didn't reciprocate and yeah may be straight or a tad bit bi curious .
Being a nudist I have already over come one of the biggest hurdles that some str8 guys have and that is being naked with another naked man. In some cases that is all it is for some str8 guys. They don't know how to be comforted naked with someone else of their own gender. The situation changes slightly if either one of you being to get hard. Then I always take my cue from the other guy. Let them call the shots.
From my own experiences, sexual contact between two men, one of whom is supposedly str8 have always been enjoyable for both of us. With some it is just a wank, whilst with others it's been the whole hog, kissing and anal. I have found in most case the str8 guy will set the limit on what they will except. Some don't like to be kissed, some don't like to be rimmed or fuck, some don't like to be blown. All of them however have permitted me to touch their cock and balls and wank/jerk them off usually to orgasm. Some like to be naked others fully clothed. And in every case, they say don't tell anyone. Which I honour.
Gay man are sometime labelled as dick hunters and praying on str8 guys in the showers, on the beach or the gym. However in my mind there is nothing wrong in looking, if it is on show, why not. As long as you are discreet about it. Some of the str8 guys there like to be admired as long as your interest is not to overt.
Each guy is different and are exploring their own sexual needs. As a gay man I know what I like and don't. I have had str8 friend ask me if I'd help them explore. Does not mean they are gay or even Bi. They are just curious and they trust me enough to understand what they are asking. I have even taken one friend to a gay sauna because they ask what it was like. Needless to say we both enjoyed ourselves.
My husband and I are both nudists. He really enjoys sucking guys off. At our lake house there is a married guy on left that is really overly friendly and hot but nothing more has happened than conversation in the yard.
On the otherside is another married guy who has appeared on one of the gay hook up apps. However, when he realized we were neighbors won't talk to us either in person or on the app.
My husband really likes just sucking guys off or giving massages. Doesn't want anything else. How is a good way to let guys (gay or straight or even the neighbors) know that you are available to hang out nude and to service their needs?
It's all good. There are so many varieties of sexuality. Everybody do what feels good to them and let's not use labels. Some are more straight and others more gay. It's a sliding scale so who cares. Personally I do tend to go more for the male side of it, but increasingly curious about the other side too. It would be very cool being with a good looking, in shape couple who is very natural and easy going to share them both.
I have been with a few guys who were married and identified as straight. In my case, the guys had wives who did not like to suck and certainly not swallow. I think it was a case of right place at right time and they were horny. Sadly, in some cases, it changed the friendship once they got caught up in guilt. Many gay guys have experiences with friends who said, I cant believe how drunk I was. I dont remember anything. I was married and in the closet for years so I know what kind of monkey mind games we all play at times.
Not sure what I would describe myself as so let me tell you what I have done and you can label me accordingly. I am a nudist. My GF is a nudist. We swing occasionally with some friends. We have naked parties with our nudist friends. Sometimes, my GF and I are with another nudist couple whom we are very close with. He and I like to jack off and watch porn together. The girls don't mind at all and usually end up joining us before we cum. We don't think anything of it. I have seen my friend cum hundreds of times and he has seen me. We have no secrets. That's kinda how it is with nudist friends who become very close.
Another nudist couple we are good friends with, we also swing with once in a while. One day, we were at their house and the girls wanted to go shopping which left the two of us guys, naked, in the pool, drinking beer. We were just talking and sex with our partners came up as a conversation. Our girls love to fuck each other. He and I have jacked off many times watching our women have sex. Then we swap and fuck each others girl. This got me horny. My friend was sitting on the edge of the pool and I asked if he ever thought about sucking dick the way our girls eat pussy. I was not surprised when he said yes because I have thought about it. I have eaten his cum out my GF's pussy on a dare, so I had gone that far.
I moved over and popped his dick in my mouth. I didn't get handsy or rub him or anything. I just simply concentrated on sucking his dick the way I like to be sucked. He blew his load and I swallowed. It was good. very similar to my own which I eat nearly daily. Then he wanted to try. I sat on the edge of the pool and even though I had not cum yet that day, I couldn't get it up. He sucked and stroked and nothing. Just a little pre cum.
He was disappointed. But for whatever reason, getting sucked by a guy was not a turn on for me even though I had a raging hard on while I sucked him. When the girls got home we told them what we did. They were weird about it at first but then were very curious. Later that evening, they asked us do do it for them. I was like, what the hell, why not. So I sucked my friend off again in front of our girls. He came and I swallowed. When he started to suck me, I went limp again. So his wife put her pussy on my face for me to lick while he sucked my dick. Since I couldn't see him, I got hard and blew a huge load into my friends mouth. It turned his wife on because she came hard all over my face. My GF watched and masturbated with a dildo. It was a fun night.
We have done it again, but we don't do it every time we get together.