Bareback vs. Sex

I really love the act but hate the name. Sex is raw. Cum is the normal result. Men inseminate. Barebacking implies risk danger or foolishness no longer relevant. It implies condoms are normative and the 'safe' way. It still lives in that space that says cum is bad and taking it is dirty. This doesn't mean no risk. What it means is that stigma n shame hover over it. Risk is in all sex. I'd rather celebrate men who choose to fuck n seed, those who do not, and those who use drugs to ensure risk reduction so pleasure is foremost and fear is not really an issue. This isn't a fetish. It's sex as nature intended. I always take semen offered. Give mine freely as discussed and negotiated each time. I will not use comdoms. That excludes and includes. But never again feeling my semen was a poison or that my penis is a hurtful again. By all means please fuck naturally... but let's reclaim it as the way sex is... not a marginal practice.

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