It is good that my toungue still is in top form.
Since I started developing Ed after the death of my wife, it has been an adjustment to having difficulty with getting and/or sustaining erections--also smaller than before... However, this has encouraged me to become even more skilled with cunnilingus and other forms of pleasuring ladies.
I was surprised to see how long it had been since I had logged in last. Too long! My wife had some serious health issues, from which she has recovered. I was saddened to hear that your wife had passed. My issues with ED started very slowly, and seem to be mostly related to blood pressure meds, which have recently been changed (for the better). I think that I may have convinced my wife today that there is more to pleasure than just penetration. Time will tell!