Lights??
definatly light, even if its not very much.An ex liked it in the dark, always hated not seeing her body as she reacted to the things I was doing. Managed to persuade her to let me leave the hallway light on and door open.Luckily wife enjoys the light too
lights on too for us or outdoor!!
Lights on is by far the best, but!!!!!! When the lady wants to be surprised by how many guys or galls are there to pleasure her and guess who is pleasuring her then lights of and in the dark.
Mind, have a Fb that wears a blindfold so she does not know who is pleasuring her.
One little twist to this question came to mind. If one member likes to have the light on, and one wants the light off, then a good compromise would be to use a strobe light. That way the light is on half the time and off half the time, depending on the flash rate it is set on. Has anyone ever had sex under a strobe light?