RE: What is an Exhibitionist?

A person who loves to be nude is not necessarily an exhibitionist.

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I experience a thrill when being watched. Being a nudist I compromise myself from time to time by forgetting I am nude though it's not thrilling. A neighbor lady likes to disrobe and watch her reflection in her window. One eve I was alone and began watching her when I thought. Why not do what she was doing. I opened the shades of the room and walked in and out of the room while turning the light on and off. I thought she'd close her curtains or turn the light off. To my surprise she lingered in front of the window all the more. I was enjoying the feeling of walking into the room while she watched me. In time I remained in the window and watched her. She acted startled though I thought it an act as she stayed in her window and showed quite a bit of herself. Our hands wandered a bit and it was quite erotic. After an hour she turned the light off. Looking forward to warmer weather so to get outside. Maybe we can chat nude at our backyard fence one eve.You were exceptionally lucky to have that experience with your neighbor.

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I was hesitant to join this group because I reallydon't think of myself as an exhibitionist. Yes I do enjoybeing nude with others and walking on a nude beach. I enjoylooking at other naked bodies and I don't mind being seen nude.For me an Exhibitionist really gets off being seen nude.They are the ones who force their nudity on other peopleoften not really interested in seeing you naked. They are theones who used to streak. That is quite different from what Ilike to do. I do enjoy having people see me naked, but it isnot really a turn on. I am only naked where is is appropriateto be naked and people expect to see nudity such as the nude beachor resort. I never hide behind a towel in a common lockerroom. I would have no problem joining in a nude pool or hottub party.How do you see exhibitionists? Do posted exhibitionist picturesneed to be erect? Most are.
OK, first, I admit that I did not read all of the other posts to see if this has already been said. I did read some. I consider myself an exhibitionist as well. For me, the primary difference between my form of exhibitionism and nudism is that I get the sexual rush from the exhibitionism. I do not, nor do I have any interest in showing anything in any form to unsuspecting women or children. No. But, like the nude beach, the gym, or other places like that, I do like to be there and be "plump" shall we say. Not a full hard-on, but in that "horse-hung" stage. Where my dick is still soft but "flopping around" at about 5" or 6". I do like to see which guys look twice. It's not stick out by any "stretch" (couldn't resist, sorry), but just not my typical little wienie.
For full sexual activity, I think that when I get on cam in the chat room here... stark naked, hard and jacking off, that's exhibitionism. It's not forced, but if you want to open the camera and look, you can. And I am then right out in front of everyone and clearly sexually charged and ... well, "all that." Likewise, if I were to be in a place that I could get away with sexual activity in a public setting, that's still exhibitionism to me. Not a circle jerk, but that CMNM thing or something similar.
Finally, I also drive nude. I do not flash anyone. My golden rule is to never make the first move. But, I will certainly make them wonder if a guy was to look over. In the early mornings, I used to that the long way to the gym and would first drive north (ha, about 20 miles) before heading south to the gym. I would have a good time passing those business men on the interstate. I'd pass the guy driving alone - with the clothes hanging in the back seat - and just as I got next to him and he was giving that absent-minded glance that we all do, I'd pull my t-shirt off - look back "absent-mindedly" myself. And then just see what he does. I was often pleasantly surprised at the number of times the guy would speed up and start keeping pace. Thinking back, I just thought that they didn't get laid before they had to head out of town. Who knows? But, I've driven nude a lot. I've also had many "car jackings" or offered "drive by shootings" - and that was exhibitionism to me.
I suppose if there was to be an unsuspecting target - it would be men. While I never "flashed" - I did hold the thought that if a guy were to figure out that I'm nekkid, he would be much more likely to shrug it off and not feel threatened.
Anyway, enough ramblin' here- it's making my dick go down.

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Hmmm, I am sure there is a good definition somewhere ... but I reflect on the old adage "You know one when you see one" and as far as exhibitionism goes, that applies to me.

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It is interesting to learn what compels us to show-off our cocks, together.
I love it!
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