Why I'll probably never have bareback sex

OK... well...
1. most people don't actually have proof... if you didn't ask for a copy of your results and keep them somewhere safe for regular access... odds are you don't actually have proof either. If you asked me for proof I'd probably ignore you too.
2. You're right. Having proof is not 100%. Neither are condoms... or pulling out... or just oral... Any time you expose yourself to another person's semen, vaginal fluid, blood, or breast milk you risk exposure to HIV, period. You don't want to risk that exposure, then don't have sex. There are ways to mitigate that risk like using condoms, but that's not bareback sex.
3. Get on PreP? Short for Pre-exposure prophylaxis, it's a low grade HIV medication you take every day like a vitamin... when you're HIV negative. Once it builds up in your system it alleviates the risk of contracting HIV by having the medication to fight HIV already in your system. The down side of course is should you actually contract HIV at some point through... misuse of the drug or something, it's highly likely that you will automatically have a drug-tolerant strain of HIV and that the medications in PreP won't work for use as an HIV med, which is what it was originally developed as... of course that all depends on your discipline in using the drug. Though if you think of it like the pill... you wouldn't want the risk of having a baby by having unprotected sex you probably want whatever woman you have sex with to be on birth control... think of this as the same kind of thing, except the thing this prevents sticks around a lot longer than 18 years and 9 months

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I guess i really enjoy more than just the feeling but the risk too. I guess for me it's that element of danger that makes the sex so much more exciting and enjoyable and feeling amazing. Everything about it is just such a better experiences, especially on those other levels.I don't expect many people to agree with me. I guess living homeless for so many years, i never felt like im going to grow old and die a healthy 98 yr old.
Im here for quality, not quantity of life. I'd rather cram as much into a few years than drag out a boring life for decades.

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That's pretty much how I feel. I would only go bareback with someone if I REALLY trust them, and most of the time I hook up with another guy, it's just random sex, so I usually insist on a condom
It even took me a few months of dating my last girlfriend before I barebacked her on purpose, because I didn't want to take risks with someone I barely knew, so it would be the same with me and another guy

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I guess i really enjoy more than just the feeling but the risk too. I guess for me it's that element of danger that makes the sex so much more exciting and enjoyable and feeling amazing.Same here. Usually I go safe (except with my bf or - now - a regular barebackbuddy), but there have been some slips, and being in some random guys ass without a rubber always made me climax very quickly. When doing safe stuff - wank or blow, or fuck with rubber or approved guys - it time takes ages until I come most of the. But that one time I barefucked that guy with the big biohazard tattoo on his chest ... I just stuck it in, made eight, nine, ten thrusts and filled his ass. And not only the first time when we had heated up already, but also later that evening when I was about to go and thought he could have it just as well have another the other way in. After licking it a little he said he thought it needed to go in there another time, and again I did not last a minute until he got his fifth load that day (other three of his bf whose dick was already sore).

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By the way: Hepatitis is a little more easily spread than HIV and may result in as well uncomfortable outcome - but Hepatitis is preventable. If you have a lot of sex, safe or bare, you should get vaccinated against it.

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OK... well...1. most people don't actually have proof... if you didn't ask for a copy of your results and keep them somewhere safe for regular access... odds are you don't actually have proof either. If you asked me for proof I'd probably ignore you too.2. You're right. Having proof is not 100%. Neither are condoms... or pulling out... or just oral... Any time you expose yourself to another person's semen, vaginal fluid, blood, or breast milk you risk exposure to HIV, period. You don't want to risk that exposure, then don't have sex. There are ways to mitigate that risk like using condoms, but that's not bareback sex.3. Get on PreP? Short for Pre-exposure prophylaxis, it's a low grade HIV medication you take every day like a vitamin... when you're HIV negative. Once it builds up in your system it alleviates the risk of contracting HIV by having the medication to fight HIV already in your system. The down side of course is should you actually contract HIV at some point through... misuse of the drug or something, it's highly likely that you will automatically have a drug-tolerant strain of HIV and that the medications in PreP won't work for use as an HIV med, which is what it was originally developed as... of course that all depends on your discipline in using the drug. Though if you think of it like the pill... you wouldn't want the risk of having a baby by having unprotected sex you probably want whatever woman you have sex with to be on birth control... think of this as the same kind of thing, except the thing this prevents sticks around a lot longer than 18 years and 9 monthsAgree entirtely. To all you guys, if you're HIV poz or undetectable poz, perhaps even neg. - why not join my group Undetectable HIV poz.....
Perhaps for some useful discussions?

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