What can you do
I like to feel my buttocks as I move and walk. I don't use back pockets and Ive removed them from some of my trousers. I can stand with my hands in my "back pockets" groping my naked bum in public. Last time was while some prudish woman was calling someone a perve for looking at pictures of nudes. She would have really laid into me if she knew what I was doing.
Since several ex-girlfriends have wanted to use a strap-on dildo on me, I have a feeling that I might run into that in the future. Hence, I am trying to get use to having something around that size in my bottom. It has been taking some time to get use to it because I have a very tight rectum.
I love a great ass.... prefer to see true form of it though, ie stood up straight or lying down but not bent over exposing hole (that can always be shown later...) one of my best erogenous zones is my ass (cheeks) - love them squeezed, groped, exposed etc I love watching massage vids with a guy getting his glutes worked! ;-))
I am with you and really enjoy watching massage videos, a guy getting full body massage in particular glutes, inner thighs etc.