Local swinging clubs that require condoms
In my area, a number of local swinger groups insist that members agree to practice "safe sex." Hence condoms are required. I started the thread about lack of success with a condom. That is why I want to bareback. I can understand why they want to make sure that STD does not infect their whole club. I suppose that the point is, "If that is a requirement, that is a requirement." I wonder about joining that club, if their requirement handicaps my enjoyment of sex. Suppose there are no other swinger clubs in my area.
We belong to two local male swingers/group sex groups, and the rule is, "follow the rules". Meaning, in our case, if the other person asks to use a condom, do (besides the usual rules: a no is a no, etc.).Personally, I love group sex and I always have fun in those settings. Sex is not always about penetration (although, LOL, some of your US presidents may have had different views ;)], and I always have fun nevertheless.
I find myself, personally, always more and more into fuck buddies. A few selected people I really like, and viceversa, we feel comfortable and I can bareback with, one-on-one or in group.