Stupid question?

Post #1 jenn1024Vanilla

by jenn1024 Vanilla

My husband would like for us to try swinging. I would also enjoy it. It seems like it would be fun and exciting. My concern is that I have had children and so my body doesn't look very good anymore. To be truthful, lots of stretch marks and extra skin. I do take care of myself and I am thin and told I'm good looking. But the fear is that if my husband with with other women who look better and "normal" then he won't enjoy sex with me anymore. And I'm also afraid that others in this lifestyle won't want to have sex with me, that I will be the one no one wants. Anyway, I guess I'm looking for other people's opinions and experiences. Thanks!

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Post #2 chaffiviVanilla

RE:Stupid question?

by chaffiviVanilla

Don't be so hard on yourself, it is not how you look it is how much fun you want to have. Chat with folks and see who clicks and go from there. No harm in trying. It never hurts to stick your toe in and test the pool.

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Post #3 SexysuzzieVanilla

RE:Stupid question?

by SexysuzzieVanilla

Me and the wife would also like to try swinging online to start with. We have talked about making love on cam whilst another couple do the same.

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Post #4 SexysuzzieVanilla

RE:Stupid question?

by SexysuzzieVanilla

Me and the wife would also like to try swinging online to start with. We have talked about making love on cam whilst another couple do the same.

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Post #5 offtoshowVanilla

RE:Stupid question?

by offtoshowVanilla

we started to swing the same way you plan and it worked for us

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