Thats a really honest and relatable situation. Its great that you both can talk openly about fantasies not all couples can. I get where youre coming from wanting to explore that experience together and not just something she wouldve done in the past. Its not even about just the act its more about sharing something intimate and exciting with your partner, right?

I think the hesitation on her end might be tied to emotional safety and trust. Maybe the key is to keep the conversation open and pressure-free letting her know its more about connection than comparison to the past.

Also, Ive seen some couples browse certain lifestyle forums or sites together where others share real stories and experiences sometimes that helps open up the conversation without it feeling like a direct ask. One place worth looking at if you're both open to exploring ideas together is https://bestpornsites.net/sex-stories-sites/
Theres a lot of real-life shared experiences that can spark the right kind of dialogue.

Just my two cents patience, open talk, and mutual comfort go a long way.

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