So you and your partner have made the move into the swinger lifestyle, and you've visited the Meetup groups and the local clubs, met a few people, and are ready to create your own scene by hosting a swingers house party at your place. But this isn't just a Tupperware party; you want people to feel comfortable and safe in a clean, welcoming environment that's perfect for everyone. Where do you even begin?
A Party Is a Party…Is a Party
Okay, so it's just a party, and all parties require the same kinds of preparations. You'll want to schedule far enough in advance (1–2 months), invite about twice the amount of people you want to show up, have the house cleaned, purchase food and drinks, and plan events. Think back to a college party, except that this one will have naked people having sex (wait, maybe that was college too…). Many of the same rules will apply here as with a more traditional party. You still want everyone to have a good time.
Plan Events
Believe us when we say you will want icebreaker events. It's not typical for guests to show up, get naked, and jump right into shagging. We all need a little time to unwind, go through the ritual of chitchat, and have a drink (yes, alcohol is a near must). A little shared laughter only helps events to roll smoother and ensure a good time will be had by all. If you know the right people, some of the best ideas are games and having a sex toy representative. Nowadays, there are a handful of home sex toy party companies, so you're likely to find someone who will be up for making a few hundred dollars. Even better, if you host, you'll get a cut in free products with most companies. Score!
Games are an excellent icebreaker. One great one is to take Polaroids of random partygoers' body parts, post them up in a central location, and have people guess to whom they belong. You can also have a themed scavenger hunt, naked Twister, and a topless poker or card dealer. Any events that spark laughter and conversation are excellent ways to break the ice and get the party started.
Introduce People
Since it's your party, you'll know if people are coming alone or won't know anyone. Make sure you introduce people you think will hit it off, so they'll get to know each other better. You could even make another game of this with questionnaires with random questions that will strike some connection between people.
Have Lots of Cozy Places
Beanbags, air mattresses, foldout couches… they all make good places to snuggle up and get intimate. You can even create some themed areas with candles, kama sutra books, and oils to get everyone in the right mood. Make sure you have lots of condoms!
Your swingers house party will be a huge success with just a little bit of pre-planning. Enjoy!
